A Letter Of Thanks And Blessing To All Moms
Happy Mother’s Day to every mom, grandma, aunt, friend, stepmom, sister, foster mom, mentor, or mother figure that has taken on the role of mother at some point in their life.
To say thank you, I’d like to share a letter of encouragement.
Sit back, enjoy your favorite beverage, and let these words wash over you, reminding you that the work you’ve done or are currently doing has not gone unnoticed.
You are appreciated.
You are loved.
The role that you are living out matters.
Be blessed in reading these life-giving words!
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Brand New Moms
Wow, your momming adventure is just beginning!
It may have been days since your last shower and the sink might be filled with dishes, but you know what?
You are doing it every day, 24/7.
No one may be thanking you, but your work is not in vain.
Thank you for loving your child enough to get up during the night for diaper changes and feedings.
Even though your baby can’t thank you or it seems that you’re drowning in laundry, what you are doing matters.
Don’t worry about a messy house or having to order takeout frequently.
Enjoy this season.
Even if you go all day long in your jammy pants and sweatshirt with a crazy messy bun, it’s okay.
In the blink of an eye your baby will be heading off to kindergarten, so enjoy the time!
On a personal note, I really enjoyed Addie’s first year, and I told myself that I wasn’t going to read any parenting books or try to do it “the right way,” I just wanted to experience the time with Addie as a new mom.
It was the best decision for me because I was able to soak it all in without worrying how other moms were handling things.
You can do this too Mama!
Moms On The Go!
For the moms on the go, your plate can sometimes seem beyond full.
Between being the carpool queen, dishes and laundry, making lunches for school, coordinating all appointments for your 3 kids, and still managing to have time to spend with your husband, things are absolutely nuts!
You are wearing all the hats all the time, and you may feel like you have nothing left to give.
What you ARE giving each day and night to your family matters so much.
Regardless whether you’ve heard “thank you” in awhile from your kids, I’m thanking you for the work you are putting in each day.
Being a mom is challenging and exhausting, yet rewarding and beautiful.
On the days you are running ragged, know that you CAN keep going.
If you need to put on the TV so you can have a 30 minute break, do it.
There is no shame in entertaining your children so you can enjoy a cup of coffee or get dinner prepped with no interruptions.
Keep doing what you’re doing, but don’t be afraid to ask for help from your husband, kids, extended family, or friends.
Even if your children aren’t saying thank you for all that you do, they are grateful.
They wouldn’t be able to go to dance class or soccer or be on the basketball team if not for your willingness to carpool them around each week.
Thank you for caring for your family!
This is an important category for many women, yet one that tends to be overlooked.
Many of you may find yourself in this role.
Thank you for embracing these children and pouring into their lives!
I think the term stepmom can have a negative connotation in our society. Sometimes we have images of the wicked stepmother in Cinderella.
That is NOT the case for most women who have bravely taken on this role!
Happy Mother’s Day to each one of you!
Thank you for stepping into a role that more than likely came with some major adjustments.
Thank you for choosing to love the children that God has placed in your care, regardless of whether they seem grateful all the time.
You may not be super close with your kids at times, but you continue to work on that relationship.
You also might be the most stable mother that these kids have ever known, due to a nasty divorce or a mother that left the family.
Regardless of how you came to have the title of stepmom, thank you for the work that you put into your role and your family each day.
Thank you for wearing a hat that isn’t always easy to wear.
I hope on this Mother’s Day you know how appreciated you are by these precious kids and your husband.
May you be celebrated well!
I cannot even imagine what this would be like.
How do you do it every day?
However you landed in this role as a single mom, I’m sorry for the losses, griefs, or sadnesses that brought you to this point.
Thank you for wearing multiple hats for your children so that they can have a great life.
I also realize that there are some of you who decided, even in your singleness, to be a foster mom or to adopt a child. That’s incredible!
Thank you for choosing to take on a child during such a hard season of life.
You are working a job by day, sometimes multiple jobs, and then you’re helping with homework, dinner, and doing other things through the night for your kids.
And without a husband by your side.
When the going gets tough there isn’t someone you can tag and say, “It’s your turn!”
It’s just you.
You deserve lots of hugs and appreciation, and I’m so thankful for your willingness to keep going even without the applause.
Just remember: each day is a new day, filled with God’s new mercies.
If you lost it with your kids the night before because you were so tired, just know that others are going through it as well.
I am not a single mom but have lost it with my daughter on more than one occasion. Parenting is challenging.
Apologize to your kids and move on. They are pretty resilient.
And remember, they are looking to you as a source of stability.
Keep on going! Your kids are learning so much from you: how to be strong, resilient, a fighter, how to persevere, and the value of hard work.
Thank you for all that you do each and every day.
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you!
You are a lifeline to your children.
You may not have had kids under your roof for a while, but you are certainly still a Mom.
Maybe you see your adult kids all the time, and maybe you don’t.
You think about your kids all the time, wondering if they’re okay or what they’re up to.
You continue to send cards on birthdays, call for a quick chat, and pray for your kids as if they were still living under your roof.
Thank you for continuing to love your kids.
When they hurt, you hurt. When they have a victory, you are cheering for them and celebrating.
You have never stopped loving them, no matter how far away they are.
Thank you for your commitment to your role even in this phase of life.
And maybe you have the wonderful joy of being a Grandma, Mimi, Gigi, or Lolli. Amazing!
It’s not the same as parenting, it’s a whole new ball game. I’ve heard great things about being a Grandma from my own mom. Sounds pretty fun!
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you empty nesters.
Thanks for loving your adult kids and giving them the freedom and confidence to make a difference in the world.
Much of who they are now is because of the great influence you had on their lives.
That is definitely worth celebrating!
This is a tough category to name, and an even tougher one to be a part of.
If you are a grieving mom, then there has been some form of loss in your past.
Be it a miscarriage, death of a child, or a broken relationship with your child, there are many forms of grief that moms are carrying.
Maybe you carried the role of Mom for a time, but due to multiple failed pregnancies or the death of an only child, the world doesn’t view you as a mom anymore.
But you are.
Your grief may stem from having a broken relationship with your own mom. It’s been years since you’ve talked.
Maybe your mom is no longer with you, whether it just recently happened or it was many years ago.
You just want to call her and hear her voice one more time.
This could also be a crazy season of suffering for you because of extended illness, stress in your marriage, or financial woes.
Due to being so overwhelmed, it’s hard to feel joyful.
Mother’s Day carries both joy AND grief for you.
That is beyond difficult, and I am so sorry.
When you see family pictures from Mother’s Day on social media and it makes your heart hurt because your arms feel empty, God sees you.
He cares about your griefs, losses, and pain.
Know that on this Mother’s Day, I’m praying for your heart to be comforted.
I’m praying that you experience a peace that surpasses all understanding, that will guard your heart AND your mind in Christ. (Philippians 4:6-7)
Thank you for continuing to put one foot in front of the other in the midst of your suffering.
Thank you for the days, weeks, months, and years that you’ve never forgotten your child.
The world may seem to forget, but a mom simply cannot forget.
The bond is too strong between mother and child.
You may go in and out of conversations with family because your mind is scrolling through old memories of what used to be.
I am so sorry for your grief and pain.
On this Mother’s Day, you are not forgotten.
You are seen, heard, cared for, and loved.
Happy Mother’s Day to each of you.
Happy Mother’s Day to the spiritual moms and foster moms, the women who may not have birthed biological children to parent, but have played the role of Mom to many.
Thank you for choosing to mentor kids who may not have a good role model at home.
Thank you for choosing to invest in young people’s lives.
If you and your husband have taken on the role of foster parents, thank you for stepping into a role that many people shy away from.
Your willingness to parent and love kids who may only be there for a short time, speaks volumes of your commitment to children.
Although you may not have the official title of Mom, you have played that role many times over.
Thank you for not growing bitter in your singleness, but channeling your strengths to impact kids’ lives for the better.
Your impact on the next generation does not go unnoticed and is so appreciated!
For me, I’ve had older women pouring into my life since middle school. I wouldn’t be where I am today without their influence!
At various times in my life my mentors have: prayed for me, given me wise counsel, pointed me to God’s Word, and just listened.
Having a mentor is invaluable!
Thank you to all the mentors and spiritual moms out there. You are beautiful souls.
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you!
For My Fellow Sisters Going Through Infertility
I know that Mother’s Day can be extremely hard for women in this position.
There is a huge focus on blessing moms from the pulpits in churches, and not a lot of thought to those struggling to become moms.
This should not be!
For my sisters who are trudging through infertility and are longing, hoping, and praying for your mom dreams to be realized, I am so sorry.
Mother’s Day is rough.
Many of you may have been pregnant multiple times, but have never been able to carry the pregnancy to term.
Some of you have yet to see a positive test.
Hopeful seasons dashed by loss.
Whether this means anything or not, I am praying for you.
I am praying that your heart will somehow be filled with hope, and that one day your dreams will be realized.
I see you and I care about your pain, but more importantly, God sees you and He cares.
My hope is for society and the church to improve greatly on reaching out more to women struggling with infertility, and to acknowledge your grief and pain on Mother’s Day.
I will be thinking of all hopeful moms-to-be on Sunday.
Thanks to every mother figure who has taken the time to read this letter!
I know that being a mom can be rough and feel thankless at times, and I hope that this letter has lifted your spirits.
You are appreciated.
You are loved.
There aren’t enough words to say thank you for all that you’ve done and continue to do each day.
From the bottom of my heart and with the biggest virtual hug I can muster, I thank you.
Be encouraged in your role as a mom, and continue to shine bright into your child’s life in the best ways you know how.
Happy Mother’s Day to you!
“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” ~Romans 15:13
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